Fashion for Men Over 40

Man Getting Dressed - What Clothes To Wear

Brandon Dyce - AskMen.com

Man Getting Dressed - Clothes To Wear

With age comes wisdom. The lessons learned over the course of a lifetime make us smarter and stronger. And by the time most of us hit our 40s, we feel like we've seen and done it all; we feel secure in ourselves, our careers and our style. Unfortunately, though, that last one sometimes stems from a false sense of security. Unlike other aspects of life, the style strategies we acquire over time end up working against us, especially after watching a few decades of ever-changing fashions fly by. At some point we must reevaluate, and the fifth decade of living is the perfect time to do just that. So, to impart some style wisdom for guys in their 40s, here is a list of fashion tips to consider.

Avoid fashion fads
Don't fall for today's fashion-marketing ploys. By now you should maintain a style that's timeless, not timely; you should avoid the latest trends at all costs. And the key here is not only avoiding fads, but also recognizing them. Since fashion fads generally target a certain age demographic, you can easily identify them according to who's wearing what. For instance, the boutique sneakers and ironic T-shirts worn mainly by guys in their late teens and twenties are suited perfectly for that age group. But a 40-year-old sporting a shirt that says, "I wish your girlfriend would stop staring at me" will only seem creepy, not cool. Simply put, fashion fads exist for guys still experimenting with their style. You're past this stage of the game and are ready for a well-defined, classic wardrobe that mirrors the man you are inside.

Leave the past behind
Just because certain looks "make a comeback" doesn't give you license to pull these items back out of your closet. As you well know, more often than not, the past is typically best left in the past. In terms of fashion, here's why: When certain looks cycle back around, they almost always return with a modernized twist, such as an updated cut or re-envisioned style. Turn your attention to aviator sunglasses, for example: Though they cycle around quite frequently, they always reappear with a slightly modified frame or lens that s different from their last go-round. So, be smart and never raid your closet for those items that resurface from the days of yore. Invest in the new version to ensure you're updated, not outdated but only if the look or item is a fashion staple, rather than a fashion fad.

Don't mistake business attire for stylish attire
What works from 9 to 5 won't always work from 5 to 9 or on the weekends. Believe it or not, even your nicest business clothes don t translate into great evening attire. In fact, wearing your work-wear to functions outside of normal work occasions appears stuffy and one-dimensional; a look no guy in his 40s should contend with. Show the world you're at the top of your game by presenting variations of yourself. Instead of wearing your best office suit to a dinner party, couple your sport coat with a pair of modern, straight leg jeans, a simple dress shirt, and your casual loafers. Adding depth to your arsenal of outfits proves you re a contemporary, style-savvy guy with a defined sense of fashion and know-how.

Keep it simple
One of the easiest and best solutions for dressing well in your 40s is keeping things as simple as possible. Loud patterns and flashy ties should be left to the younger generations. Fill your closet with a diverse collection of solids and/or pared-down prints that are unpretentious and unassuming. Make yours a sophisticated, subdued style that speaks for itself. It s simple, really.

Keep it clean
You know what they say cleanliness is next to. And guys in their 40s should pay special heed to the concept of keeping it clean in a few areas: One, make sure your clothes strike crisp, clean lines; baggy, ill-fitting clothes look dumpy and lame. Go for clothes that create smooth lines and breaks around your frame, giving you a polished, dapper appearance. Also, think about the cleanliness of the garments themselves. Obvious, maybe, but it still must be stated: Torn and/or stained clothes are juvenile and should never leave the confines of one's home. And last, but not least, always be well-groomed and clean-shaven. Clean skin and hair is industry standard by now, and facial hair generally makes you look older. Make a big statement by maintaining an all-around clean appearance; it invokes an impeccable, all-powerful image for guys in their 40s.

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Embrace your age
The underlying principle to looking great in your 40s (and any age, for that matter) is to embrace your age. Take pride in number of years you've lived -- don't try to hide them by adopting a style that belongs to another generation; dressing in clothes that are too big or too small will only give you away and make things worse. Using the tips above, you should find age-appropriate garments that flatter your strengths. Plus, keep your receding or thinning hair short; comb-overs fool no one! However, you should battle the march of time with certain grooming products: Teeth whitener, hair dye,and face washes/lotions all work in fighting off the years. There' s no shame in defying your age, as long as you're doing it in suitable ways. Embracing your age will produce a masculine, mature sophistication that suits 40-year-olds to a tee.

Over 40 and fabulous
Styles constantly change, and keeping up with trends can be a daunting task. Thankfully, though, you guys in your 40s are well beyond this: Yours is a style that's defined, classic and elegant. By employing the timeless strategies above, you guys can enjoy a more confident, stylish, distinctive image that's suited to your demographic. But most of all, you can finally own up to the style wisdom that comes with age. And hopefully, that wisdom comes with enlightenment.

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  • Vernon Taylor
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    Vernon Taylor said 5-14-2008 @4:03PM

    Would like to know if same applies to one thats going to turn into the 50's?

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  • Dan Kelley
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    Dan Kelley said 4-22-2009 @5:53PM

    I have always been something of a rebel when it came to dress. I went to military school in the 5th grade and had to wear a tie everyday through high school. I am 71 and ties were mandatory in college as well.I vowed I would never wear a tie again once I graduated. They serve no purpose at all unless you want to hang your self or have someone tie you to a post. I have owned 4 business's and the first rule was no ties. I wanted our customers to see the person not the suit. Neat yes. The uniform suit was no different than military school. You learn to hate it. I graduated in 1959 That was the last time I wore a tie. Slacks open collar shirt including a quality polo was my dress code. I even had customers tell me that I made them feel comfortable. Its time to break the confining suit mold and be free.

  • stephen t, alston-player
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    stephen t, alston-player said 5-14-2008 @7:13PM

    i was withyou completely till "hair dyes " . for me , not happening . there is more than a little something to be said for the stately mature look , and the women i come in contact with prove in on a daily basis . stop telling men they must appear younger than they are in order to be attractive . i love my salt and pepper . and any one who thinks that's and old man's look isn't mature eough to be in my company .

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  • Glenn
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    Glenn said 5-14-2008 @8:48PM

    This article was great and informative.

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  • Derek
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    Derek said 5-16-2008 @4:46PM

    Well I'm turning 40 this coming Wednesday the 21st I guess this article couldn't have come at a better time.LOL

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  • Don
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    Don said 11-18-2008 @5:50AM

    Good article. Keep the hair short. NO HAIR DYES!

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  • Garry
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    Garry said 3-17-2010 @12:03PM

    Thanks for this informative article. It occurs to me that someone is really missing the boat regarding mature men's fashion. Are there any periodicals which focus primarily on this topic? As a senior, I would very much appreciate being kept informed regarding age appropriate men's fashion, affordable sources and advise. Does anyone know of any such publications? The men's stores and department stores have lots of options, but none of them are known for their $ value mdse. Being on a set and limited income, one has to be very savvy regarding their fashion budget $. None of us want to end up looking like last year's geeks!

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  • Mark
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    Mark said 4-20-2011 @9:11AM

    I agree with most of what is said however I die my facial hair because as a DJ people prefer a younger looking guy. Also my hobby is building hot rods and I wear my old stained cloths to do this. I am a jeans and T-shirt kinda guy most of the time and if we go out my wife prefers this look over suits or dressy shirts.

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