Sheer Bra Fear: Do's and Don'ts

Wearing a sheer bra isn't always an easy feat, as many women can confirm. The dos and don'ts of wearing a sheer bra are a matter of style, comfort and protection. Sheer bras can be used as a sheer lingerie to wear with formal attire, or as a sexy choice for other occasions. While the traditional sheer bra is nude, some sheer bras have more vibrant colors, while others are made of mesh or lace, causing them to be less obvious. Sheer bras are, of course, one of the sexiest bra choices out there; there's no need to fear sheer if you follow these tips.

Do make sure you wear a bra that coordinates with your clothing or skin tone. Most sheer bras should match the color of your skin as closely as possible, or at least complement it. When deciding which bra to wear with certain clothes, use similar rules when choosing sheer bra colors that you would use for regular bras.

Do get a bra that fits. Sheer bras should fit well, just like other types of bras. The straps should remain in place even when you are moving around. The strap across the back, in particular, needs to maintain its position regardless of how much you are moving. Be sure that the cups hold your breasts without cutting into them or leaving the dreaded bra line across your chest; also, check to make sure that the cups don't have any gaps or bulges in the fabric when you're standing up straight. Sheer bras can be less forgiving than bras that are lightly padded, so it's crucial to ensure proper fit. For the same reason, seamless sheer bras are a good idea. Don't forget that there are good full figure sheer bras and plus size sheer bras available as well.

Don't get a sheer bra with prints if you will be wearing the bra under thin clothing. The purpose of the sheer bra is to be "barely there." Flowers or other designs give away the bra. That works well if you don't mind others seeing your bra. But if you do, go for more classic, smooth sheer bras unless you will be wearing the bra under thick tops, in which case the patterns won't be visible.

Do watch out for wearing a sheer bra with a thin shirt. If you will be matching a sheer bra with a very light shirt, you are just asking for an embarrassing moment. Again, you should opt for thicker shirts or plan to bring a sweater with you if you will be wearing a sheer bra and thin top. Just being aware of how the bra will work with your shirt when you are out and about can help you avoid potentially embarrassing episodes in public.

Do be confident if you will be wearing a sheer bra. These bras accentuate your natural curves, rather than keep them hidden or artificially altering them. Wearing a sheer bra lets you feel good about your body. Some of the sexiest sheer bra choices come from Elle MacPherson and Natori .

Don't rule out the variety of sheer bras. These bras come in all types and from all brands, including Wacoal , Warners and Leading Lady. Some are entirely sheer while others have sheer panels or sheer patches. Each bra has a purpose, and considering a wide variety will help you find what you're looking for.

Do plan to try on several types of bras. Because sheer bras have little support or form to the bra itself, you will need to rely on the underwire to make the bra fit properly. Getting the right fit can be even trickier than with a normal bra, which is a feat in itself. Ask a sales representative to measure you if you are having trouble finding a good sheer bra.

Don't limit your shopping options. Many brands offer sheer bras, including Olga , Calvin Klein , Donna Karan and even the Gap. If one doesn't offer what you're looking for, chances are the next one will.

Do consider alternately constructed bras. These bras may be strapless to permit you to wear them with different types of clothing, or they may have transparent clasps in the middle. These can be great for wearing with formal clothing with plunging or keyhole necklines.

Don't rely on what others will like. A sheer bra is supposed to be fun for you. Many women feel sexier in this type of bra, and you should get what you want and what works for you rather than what you think others will enjoy.

Don't wear a sheer bra every day, as the structure means it provides little breast support. Instead, bring it out on special occasions.

Do have fun! Wearing sheer bras can make you feel a little sexier in your everyday life--enjoy it.

Sheer bras are a great way to add a little playfulness to your wardrobe. The right sheer bras can work well under your clothing, offering good support while feeling light as a feather. Try one out and be prepared to feel sexy and pair it up with that risque lingerie for later!

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